Should you have sex with your partner even if you aren't in the mood but be/she is?

174 - 16366 - 1 year ago

Does anyone else get turned on hearing about your partners past sexual experiences?
I love to hear about my wife's sex life before me. I wish she would give me all the details.

22 - 4935 - 1 year ago

My Girlfriend has trust issues because of her past relationships and she is very possessive about me and I don't know why but after some days she would fight with me for no reason and it had already happened many times , sometimes I think she is doin...

45 - 6432 - 1 year ago

My husband loves to go out and party. I have no issues with it but should I be upset when he comes home at 3 & 4 in the morning?

56 - 4095 - 1 year ago

My husband really wants me to talk dirty to him during sex but I always get tongue tied, or I just don’t know what to say? I need help

60 - 6510 - 1 year ago

Would you take your partner back if they cheated on you while too drunk to remember it?

85 - 2807 - 1 year ago

My partner loves to hear my fantasies.
She refuses to tell hers and claims that she doesn't fantasize.
Do some people really not have fantasies?
How do I get her to open up?

49 - 2649 - 1 year ago

Me and my gf are living in a long distance relationship due to her school abroad. We'll move together in May but during past weeks she has talked a lot about needing a person to hug, cuddle and hang out with when I'm away. It was fine for me but last week...

34 - 3162 - 1 year ago

What are your thoughts on, "manscaping?" Although I've asked (many times), my boyfriend refuses to shave down below. I've even suggested just trimming would be a start, and he won't. While I'm expected to maintain my nether regions (which I've always don...

59 - 1724 - 1 year ago

When we have arguments with my bf he never reconciled with me first. Even when it is his fault. He just starts ignoring me and he can keep silent for a few weeks not talking to me. This time it was obviously his fault and I am not going to make up first. ...

28 - 1547 - 1 year ago

My wife has asked me so change so many things in regards to us having a better life, and yes she was right. I got off certain meds, change my night schedule to days, spend more time with family - but when we are at the peak of all these changes for the be...

16 - 1265 - 1 year ago

My bf and I are quite serious. Somehow while discussing our future, the subject of wedding rings came up. I was surprised to learn that he has no intention of wearing a wedding ring when we get married(not engaged yet.) Out of curiosity, I asked and he to...

60 - 4912 - 1 year ago

Should I be upset that my husband has decided to stop wearing his wedding ring? He says he knows he is married and so do I so why should he wear it? I disagree he know I feel strong about the wedding band and would prefer he wore it but he refuses! Should...

7 - 898 - 1 year ago

Does anyone ever masterbate in front of or for your partner, having them watch but not be a part of it?

4 - 1041 - 1 year ago

My wife fantasizes about sex with a stranger.
Does anyone's partner have a specific fantasy?
& how do you feel about it?

2 - 880 - 1 year ago

Soo. I need couples opinions
Would u an ur partner or do u all ever think about bringing a thircd. I know my boyfriend would love a surprise threesome an i really don't think it would bother me as long as it doesn't become a regular thing .. any o...

9 - 777 - 1 year ago

My bf and I were just friends at 1st. Then I grew attracted to him, dumped my bf, and confessed to him. His gf had been egging him on to find a 2nd partner... ME. He'd been worrying over this/its authenticity for the longest, but upon my confession, he fe...

3 - 811 - 1 year ago

Not missing each other due a busy week of extensive work?.
My partner had a 6 days work trip. When she came back, she was happy to tell me everything about her field research.
Then I told her "I missed you!". She replied with an "aw :) me too!...

2 - 652 - 1 year ago

My husband and I have been together 10 years. He performed oral all the time with no issues... But lately, his lips swell, becoming painful 2 days after... And the reaction last at least a week. Seriously, it's happened every time for the past 3 months. <...

16 - 1645 - 1 year ago

It's been 6 years . When it comes to dates, we don't go out on any, I don't receive flowers, or even go to the park. You can bet your bottom dollar that he will go and buy something on random for himself, but when it comes to the kids and myself, we don't...

18 - 991 - 1 year ago

We recently found out that I have heart failure... two days after he proposed. It has put a strain our relationship. It seems like he is angry all of the time. How do I comfort him, battle heart failure and take care of my rebelling 7 year old son all at...

27 - 1017 - 1 year ago

Why is it ok for me to encourage girl time for her which I might add she isn't to fond of anyways, but when I suggest I guys night she acts absolutely ludicrous? She claims she trust me 100%, but yet throws a fit when all I want to do is maintain my 20 pl...

24 - 850 - 1 year ago

Who has ever been walked in on while having sex or had someone watching while you had sex?
What was your reaction?

13 - 1312 - 1 year ago

Major advice or experience needed-😭 My question is has anyone moved on forgave, have a healthy marriage now after adultery emotional & physically??? Together 13 years, married 9- 3 children... Therapy for both of us individual and together. Reading books...

21 - 1002 - 1 year ago

My partner is a serious introvert. And he even breaks that mold...he just says nothing even though it makes him unhappy and puts it away in his mind. That is him dealing with issues. I am an extravert and know I need to work on things and opposites do att...

15 - 704 - 1 year ago

Do you and your partner sometimes sleep in separate beds? Why?

92 - 1669 - 1 year ago

How do you learn to trust him if in the last two years you've caught him multiple times on sex sites fake emails, Craigslist and multiple times has been caught how do you learn to trust him. "The lies, fake emails, all the profiles" how do I stop killing ...

7 - 608 - 1 year ago

My fiancée and I are absolutely head over heels for one another, I’ve just noticed he has been paying more attention to whatever he’s watching on the tablet then he is to me during sex. I’m not vocal, I try to be but get tongue tied in thinking “what’s th...

37 - 1535 - 1 year ago

sometimes my spouse’s ‘tone’ is a problem...it is not so much what he is saying but how he is saying it...any thoughts on ‘tone improvement’?

3 - 467 - 1 year ago

Do you think it's a man's responsibility to support his family financially?

92 - 2096 - 1 year ago

For the past few months, me and my bf are in a long distance relationship. I had to leave the country to work abroad. I love my job, but I hate every day I am away from him. And his mother passed away a few days later... I want to resign to go back to him...

24 - 910 - 1 year ago

So myself and my fiance are 9 months into our relationship. We love each other dearly speak about each other to everyone regardless of topic and speak about kid regularly. But I'm completely confused as to why I cant maintain a erection during sex. I have...

37 - 1555 - 1 year ago

If you had an issue with your partner about their past sexual experiences i.e. inviting a 3rd person into the bedroom. And opposed to the idea . Even the very thought makes you sick. But can tell it's something you're partner is into and although tells yo...

31 - 1690 - 1 year ago

What's your take on relationship phone etiquette? Should phones be openly available to you both? If one partner is holding back and not so open, should you worry?

1 - 420 - 1 year ago

How do you trust after your husband has an emotional affair with another woman? He tried leaving me for her but in the end he stayed. I have forgiven him, but there is so many questions I have that he refuses to answer. Should I let it go and move on or k...

48 - 1276 - 1 year ago

My gf is seriously into BDSM yet I'm not... I don't want to abuse her..but it's the best way she get on. What do I do cope with it or just not do it .... (Never tried it yet she just tells me about it )

5 - 450 - 1 year ago

Hello, I've been dating my gf for almost 2years now and it's been a long distance relationship for 6months. to break the distance we both plan she furthers her education in my region for 4years then we get married thereafter.
Suddenly she informed me...

13 - 1426 - 1 year ago

I love my partner and I believes he does love me too. There is no way he is cheating on me. Whatever is happening in our relationship, we talk it through and move on but there is one subject even we think we are done with it, it will come back: sex. Our s...

1 - 751 - 1 year ago

What would you do if your loved one keeps secrets from you even after marriage. And you keep getting into bitter arguments every time something related to those secrets enter into a regular conversation?

Example: financial planning sharing of d...

3 - 386 - 1 year ago

So my fiancee and i have 16mo twins 1ea. And was room mating when we conceived. He works during the week days and i work week nights and weekends... So not much time together- i am the only driver w/license. What can we do for cheap quick but meaningful t...

1 - 222 - 1 year ago

My guy doesn’t go deep when it comes to stating feelings. So guys what is it I can do to get the true deep mushy info out of him?

23 - 1591 - 1 year ago

How quick or how long did it take to say I love you and why?

38 - 1768 - 1 year ago

I find it really hard to surprise my partner as he lives 8 hrs away from me.. Any suggestions to make his birthday special??
Ps. Both of us have work on the day and can't meet in person

27 - 649 - 1 year ago

Is sex still the same as it was when we first started going out or is it more or less passionate. Vibrator, batteries, pleasure, surprise, ?

53 - 2353 - 1 year ago

My fiancé and I have a great sex life or what I say to me is a great sex life, but at times I can sense that he gets a little upset if I don’t have sex with him. I work 50 hour weeks which is not at all an excuse but I can get away with maybe having sex ...

20 - 1359 - 1 year ago

I'm married and have been for 10+ years and he is not satisfied me sexually for the past year and it's been a lot less than it ever has been,then when we do it's always the same thing as last time and he doesn't last long ,min to five if I get ten mins t...

30 - 1550 - 1 year ago

What do you do if you keep seeing signs that your partner has or is currently being less than faithfull, but when you ask about it it causes an argument and when you show signs of mistrust it makes the situation worse but the mistrust grows after every ar...

32 - 749 - 1 year ago

Masterbation...
Do you prefer to know when your partner masterbates without you or would you rather they keep it a secret?
Do you consider it cheating or are you hurt by your partner masterbating on their own?

3 - 679 - 1 year ago

My wife loves Harry Potter... I cannot do it any more.. if I hear one more quidditch reference I think I’m going to lose it...
what do I do...?

22 - 497 - 1 year ago

Do double standards ever arise out of jealousy, how do you respond if/when they do?

21 - 696 - 1 year ago