8 months ago
almost seems like l know you from a previous life. Seems like I don't want to see or can't see the obvious red flags in the beginning and believe that it will workout if we try hard enough (that might be true if both parties are working at it-history has shone me that I misjudge how much effort they are willing to put forth) So needless to say l have had to pay through years of pain misery and heartache in 3 long relationships (l don't learn quickly); And have had to grow up and/or smarten up on the tail end of the relationship. Hopefully, if there is a next one, I pray that I will iron out all the wrinkles, ask all the questions, take it slow and pay attention to their actions not their words. I am 48 yns old I have always been an upbeat smiling helpful caring person that is gullible, overly trusting, aloof, somewhat needy and petty who has a hard time expressing and communicating himself, that wants a little nurturing cuddle and attention at the end of the day from someone special. As innocent as this may seem that a lot to put on anyone else I have to lean to do that for myself by not dictating where and whom it comes from. thank you for sharing!!!
Trevor - 48yo - level 1 -