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So.. I am not one to Snoop or hack into hi is phone or crazy stuff like that.. BUT.. he had to use my phone to do something on his email and.. ya well long story short.. I dont need to tell you what happened.. right?! Anyways.. my problem is that there is all these like spam emails or whatever from a bunch of different porn sites! Ok.. not a HUGE deal but when I got looking into it he is actually messaging women on these sites and lied to me. About it when I asked him and I know he's not actually meeting them but I feel like it's just the same as cheating to talk to someone else in that manner.. yes????!!

Becky - Living together - level 7

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3 months ago

I went through the same thing & it really hurt n even though he didnt meet anyone it still felt like cheating to me!! If i was doing it, i would feel that i was cheating, wouldnt you?? My advice to you would be to talk to him about it & if he truly loves you he will stop but if he doesnt stop doing it...dump his ass!!! Good Luck!

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3 months ago

Wow sorry to hear,.. some men can be very immature ... and I believe trust and respect for each other is important, other wise it's his loose not yours!

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7 months ago

I am also having the same problem! During the many arguments he had some lame excuses & contradicted himself several times! He apologized profusely & seemed to be truly sorry, as far as I know he has stopped.... OR is just being more careful...??? Either way the 100% Trust is Gone & that's what really hurts & pisses me off!!!!

Bobbi - 55yo - level 27 -
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8 months ago

I would definitely consider that cheating.

Sophia - 24yo - level 7 -
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8 months ago

I believe that cheating starts with sercritive conversations

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