9 months ago
Accept the fact that you're going to have to be the one to apologize. Do it and move on, even if he refuses to talk to you, keep living your life. You don't have to apologize for the specific wrong, especially because it isn't yours, but you can apologize for the argument or the way you handled it. If you can't handle it, get out of the relationship now. Don't get married. It won't get better, it will only intensify. If it is something you can live with, chooae your reaponses carefully and then go about your days knowing you did the best you could.
Aimee - 39yo - level 10 -