1 year ago
Find out why she’s been doing it. Most likely nothing will be a good enough answer, but 14 years is a long time to spend with someone. If she truly expresses shame, guilt, or regret, and is willing to end it with the ex, look into a marriage and/or sex therapist. Good luck and I’m so sorry you’re going through this.
Jaclyn - 36yo - level 22 -