My husband and I have been together 10 years. He performed oral all the time with no issues... But lately, his lips swell, becoming painful 2 days after... And the reaction last at least a week. Seriously, it's happened every time for the past 3 months.
I've been to the doctors twice, no stds, no infections. He's been to the doctor with no luck... He's been tested, Clean. I've always used the same soap, nothing has changed in that aspect.
I dont understand it, it's been frustrating since oral is the only way I can have an orgasim and actually get going. Which means I'm sexually frustrated, don't want to be touched, and constantly worry about infecting him.

I have tried to change soaps, hoping it was an allergic reaction. No luck. Tried after showering... Still happened. Any advice, ideas?

I'd suggest going to the toy store togetherand getting a good vibrator. Take him with you so he feels included. Get something small, like a little bullet that you can use in yourself while he's penetrating you. That way you both can have an orgasm.

melissa - 33yo - level 7 -

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Sounds like a stubble problem. Try waxing instead of shaving

Scotty - 31yo - level 10 -

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I was also going to guess something that you've eaten that he is allergic to.
Could you possibly have a UTI, yeast, or bacterial infection (wouldn't show up on an STD test)?
Hopefully you find an answer soon.

Elizabeth - level 1 -

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With everything being cleared through the doctor, it almost sounds like it is a psychosomatic response that his body is giving off. Are there other things going on in the relationship that are causing stress or things that are not being discussed? Is he experiencing any stress at work or in other areas of his life that he's not opening up about?

Tara - 42yo - level 17 -

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Sounds like pussy stubs. Get that stuff WAXED.

Antonio - 21yo - level 8 -

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Time for a check up for u both and Some old school dental dam my help best of luck 💜🖤💙1luv

Oozy - 30yo - Dating - level 8 -

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It could be the ph balance of your vagina is different than what it has been before and that's what is irritating his lips.

Alisha - 33yo - level 42 -

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Probably have a yest infection or bacterial infection its normal

Heather - 29yo - level 12 -

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For starters, don't wash mucous areas with soap! It destroys the pH balance. Just water is all the pussy needs.

Isabella - 41yo - level 20 -

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........ get checked out

Mo - 35yo - level 1 -

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something you're personally eating he's probably allergic to and it's coming out through you. Have you been eating a certain food a lot lately?

Sabrina - 36yo - level 9 -

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It could be your actual cum he's now allergic to for some reason try a piece of plastic wrap covering your lady part except for a small hole for his tongue that way his face not his lips are actually touching down there. I really hope this works out for you I would be so so so sad if my bf couldn't give me head.

Sarah - 35yo - level 1 -

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Try eating lots of pineapple before hand.

Ed - 59yo - level 1 -

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Do you shave? Cuz it could be possible stubble or the hair. I know at certain times in my mans facial hair growing when I kiss him my face starts getting all splotchy and red and sometimes even itchy.

Christina - 33yo - in a relationship for 1 year - Dating - level 27 -

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Your secreting something that he's allergic to maybe something in your diet has changed or he has become allergic to something in your diet if not I suggest he uses a dental dam

William - 55yo - level 1 -

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Keep investigating but as oozy said, use a dental dam in the mean time! If that doesnt work for you i’d do as someone else suggested and get a sex toy to help you orgasm. Good luck!

Chloé - 26yo - level 52 -

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What about gonorrhea?

Sandee - 45yo - level 39 -

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