My husband and I have been together 10 years. He performed oral all the time with no issues... But lately, his lips swell, becoming painful 2 days after... And the reaction last at least a week. Seriously, it's happened every time for the past 3 months.
I've been to the doctors twice, no stds, no infections. He's been to the doctor with no luck... He's been tested, Clean. I've always used the same soap, nothing has changed in that aspect.
I dont understand it, it's been frustrating since oral is the only way I can have an orgasim and actually get going. Which means I'm sexually frustrated, don't want to be touched, and constantly worry about infecting him.

I have tried to change soaps, hoping it was an allergic reaction. No luck. Tried after showering... Still happened. Any advice, ideas?

I have had everything checked... Literally, everything. No uti, no yeast, no bacterial. She even put me on an antibiotic to make sure if wasn't anything.

Brittany - 31yo - level 21 -

Kind of a side note, but you seriously can't get off with anything but oral? You don't masturbate? You don't have any toys? You don't give him any kind of direction when you are having sex? You don't play with your clit while you're having sex? Sorry to be a little graphic, but there are lots.of ways to have an orgasm.

Jim - 48yo - level 28 -

Yeah there is , you just need to relax and enjoy i think of my husband and him entering me gets me going and I have a few orgasm just wth penetration, and then with him playing with my clit, and when he enters me with his fingers finding my G spot and omg mind blowing . never did get off on oral tho .

Quintana - 43yo - in a relationship for 12 years - Married - 2 - Ceres ca, United States - level 11 -

If the pH balance changed that much it would be from an infection. Vaginas don't just change pH for fun. So if she's had all that checked out, it's not that

Sam - 19yo - level 45 -

Actually the ph does change based on menstrual cycle and the presence of semen.

Kyla - 36yo - level 21 -

Also the human body goes thru changes physically every seven years as well, so it's probably a combination of this bodily change and the psychosomatic effect from stress, that stuff can kill ya. But I also kinda went thru this problem with my girl we just chalked it up to I'm allergic to her, but seriously we've had the same thing occure, once everything relaxes enough at home or work I'm sure everything will be fine..

James - 39yo - level 5 -

I have had everything checked... Literally, everything. No uti, no yeast, no bacterial. She even put me on an antibiotic to make sure if wasn't anything.

Brittany - 31yo - level 21 -

I was thinking the same thing.

Elizabeth - 39yo - level 32 -

I started a new medication... Could that have an effect?

Brittany - 31yo - level 21 -

Absolutely that could have an effect! Everyone's body chemistry changes over time and adding a new medication to your system could definitely be affecting him physically.

Jim - 48yo - level 28 -

She said they have both been checked and there is no STD or UTI or yeast infection of any kind. I seriously don't understand why people don't read the entire post before they reply.

Jim - 48yo - level 28 -

Right? It's annoying seeing the responses of ignorance.

Christina - 33yo - in a relationship for 1 year - Dating - level 27 -