10 months ago
Well my boyfriend an I just celebrated our 5th anniversary together... In a long distance relationship. We are your age, and living appart from the beginning. Distance is a great opportunity to grow for each of you, but sometimes it sucks. You have to make tough choices and sacrifices that will or won't be worth the effort in a relatively long time. My boyfriend and I faced the same problem and decided to finish our careers and then move to the same city after, one that is not his or mine, that demands more or less the same effort to get to for both of us. He works and I don't, so i can understand your girlfriend s concerns, but I don't think it is fair to make you those claims. She's scared and overwhelmed, try to understand her. Sit down and talk honestly, plan together some way that you both can equally carry the weight of being apart and wanting to be closer. You'll work it out, you'll see. We are surviving after 5 years, it sucks but it's not impossible!
Euge - 23yo - level 21 -