3 weeks ago
Sorry to hear about that Seth. It's hard to understand your situation without knowing more about the context, but if you made changes for the betterment of the relationship and she still left, there were likely things going on in her life or mind that she wasn't sharing. A man could wonder for ages what those things are, but if you've told her how you feel already your best bet is probably to focus on yourself and your hobbies while you allow her space. It's sad to say but even a woman in love can be further deterred by constant attempts to bring her back. When she's ready to hear you out she will let it be known, but until then I encourage you to find your own peace through family, friends, fitness, nature, and definitely meditation to quiet your mind (your circumstances could make anyone anxious). Best wishes to you!
Sean - 27yo - level 12 -