5 months ago
Personally, I feel insecure when I don't know what I'm doing, essentially when I start filling my head with questions I can't answer. Is this the right time? Is this the right person? What if any of us change our mind? What if we break up? I just kept on thinking, and the more I think, the more I question. Then I realised, I'm not the only one who asks these questions, more importantly, I realised that no one really know the answers. We are all just trying out best to do what we believe will make us happy, we all have to take this leap of faith, do what we can and leave the rest to things we can't understand. Once I accepted that, I naturally thought less about these unknowns, I simply care more about what is happening now, instead if things I can't do anything about. With that been said, I don't think you can force yourself to stop these feelings, but you can certainly try to understand them, understand why you feel the way you do, and perhaps discuss it with someone. Hopefully, it becomes an opportunity for you to move on.
Heng - level 8 -