4 weeks ago
Being young and unmarried probably won't help me much, but I'm skeptical about this kind of "help". It may seems like a game for now, a harmless game to satisfy your natural needs, but whatever you choose to do with this person, I doubt that it will just be a game. It may verll well start that way, but you can never tell what this kind of decision could lead to once you set a precedent. It might make you happy, and in term makes your partner happy, but as you get deeper into the game, you might not be able to tell what is real and what is not, and by the time you knew it, it would be too late, and what's done is done. However, if you are seriously unhappy with your marriage, then maybe such inclination is ultimately inevitable. If that's what you want, then you will do whatever you believe will make you happy. But if your intention is just to let some steam out, to save your marriage, then I fear it will turn into something you can't control. As someone who is married for a long time and likely have kids already, that could be a very risky game.
Heng - level 8 -