10 months ago
It clearly upsets you, and that's something you can't help, so here's what I think you should do: think about why it upsets you. Is it because you don't trust him? Is it because you miss him and you would like you two to do something else instead? Is it because he gets drunk? What are your reasons? Once you've found your reasons, talk to him. Pay attention: NEVER stop him from doing what he loves. But you can find some balance. For example, if you miss him, you can go out or just stay home together on Friday nights, and he can party on Saturday nights. If it's because of jealousy, you can work on it together, to find a solution. He can text you more, to show he hasn't forgotten you etc. Dialogue is always the best way to solve problems in a relationship, but you also need to know what's really in your mind.
Gabriela - 23yo - level 34 -