My husband really wants me to talk dirty to him during sex but I always get tongue tied, or I just don’t know what to say? I need help

Tell him stuff like "God you know how to fuck me", "dam your so big, you make me so wet" or you can esk questions like "you like fucking this pussy", "whos gives it to mommy good" once you gets started it will get easier and easier. Pay attention to how he reacts to what your saying that will help alot

Derreck - 39yo - level 14 -

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He doesn't want a discussion he just wants feedback. So tell him what feels good and what feels bad for your body and toss in some naughty words every now and then.
Alt, pretend it's food. You've got no problem saying This pizza is fu#k!g awesome. do you?
I'd skip watching the porn for starters...he might think you're goofing around c him.

Emilio - 64yo - level 7 -

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Just start with saying out loud what you’re physically feeling. “Yes, that feels good. Right there. Harder.... slower....” It will evolve form there. 😉

Tracy - 37yo - level 16 -

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Be genuine. There is no benefit to saying something that isn't you, doesn't feel right, feels forced, is over thought and or rehearsed.

Kandi - 31yo - level 10 -

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For some dirty talk rolls off the tongue easily, but for some it can be a learning curve. My advice, have a couple of shots before hand it'll help lighten you up and then just relax, relate, release. Ask "who's d**k is this", tell him to do dirty things to you, etc. You will experience a different kind of passion.

Laquetia - 35yo - level 8 -

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Honestly men love the effort. I'm a huge fan of dirty talk. My girlfriend did not like it in the earlier parts of our relationship and but honestly to him whatever you say will be hot and you'll be able to tell the difference in his enjoyment when you do it.

DeMarius - 24yo - level 5 -

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Thats difficult for me too. Over time I tried to overcome it but I have come up short. Its not tongue tied, its embarrasment. You are doing somethin naughty, and now you also have to voice it out?? No way jose. They way Im getting better is because my partner accepts me and makes me feel extremly wanted in evwry kimd of way. He isnt afraid to do random acts in sex. Im always remind it how every noise my body makes is okay, normal and hot for him. I have gotten good at sex talk although he still shuts me up or I cant text it.

I understand you guys need to build up that disgusting naughty comfort zone. Were anything is possible and okay.

You can just start by saying how you feel during the act. Saying how you like it and why.

Ashlyn - 23yo - level 3 -

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What you need to do is take your vibrating toy and stick it we’re the sun don’t shine and what ever words come out of his mouth at that very moment those are gonna be the words you use when he wants you to talk dirty to him. If he don’t want you to do that then you tell him (you never had a pounding sensation in ur butt before?) Tell him u have and that will turn him on for sure! There is a spot in between his ass and his scrotum it’s like a G spot for a male right when he is about to bust put your two or three fingers on that spot and put some pressure on it he will have a really good orgasm and come back for more!

Jeffery - 40yo - level 11 -

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Do it, you will find you like it more than he does, it inhances the whole experience and you bond in somemavi Al way I can't explain but girl just do it lol trust me

Suzy Lechowicz - 47yo - level 23 -

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Just relax and have fun. Remind yourself that he asked for this and he loves you so he's going to appreciate the effort and remember practice makes perfect lol

Kyrie - 32yo - Married - level 12 -

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I think you should basically tease him with a sexy voice.. something simple can be very sexy

April - 40yo - level 1 -

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just count to 3 and then just do it. keep your husband happy and satisfied. he will appreciate it and so will you.

Robert - 27yo - level 4 -

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Think about what he’s doing that you like and encourage him, “yes like that” or “don’t stop” ...it’s more natural than you think.

Tianna - 28yo - level 1 -

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One way to approach this is to just describe what’s happening, like you’re kind of narrating your encounter. . .’Im getting turned on, I like it when you do X, do X again, you’re so good at X. . .’

Ben - 37yo - level 12 -

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I say things like "I've been a bad slut and need to be punished...lol

Christal - 47yo - level 6 -

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For me, reading dirty stories online has helped, I think the same is for my boyfriend and he watches a lot of porn so that probably helps but obviously you want to sound less rehearsed and less cheesy so don't just repeat word for word everything you read or hear unless is feels right. Eventually it will come naturally. If I get stumped during sex, I just moan and pretend I'm too into it to reply lol, we dirty talk and role play basically every time we have sex and every time I get stumped at least once. Try to relax and let it be natural and don't worry about sounding stupid or anything like that. Be open and communicate, ask how you did afterwards and accept feedback with a optimistic attitude. Good luck

Savannah - level 17 -

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Relaxing is key. We don't care if you form a sentence or mumble like rainman. It makes us feel wanted, desired and something about us, what ever it is, is the secret key to your sexual desire. Little things like "I want you in me" or "let me suck you" will do worlds for his pride and self-esteem. You don't have to go all kink hotel on him but feel comfortable whispering what you want him to do. Men find great pleasure knowing where doing what you like and you desire us. Close your eyes and pretend you have a set of instructions to your body. Mumble them to him. You don't have to use words like dick and pussy to achieve the goal. We do like to hear you say things like. "I want to taste you" and even asking questions like "you want to eat me don't you " remember relax and injoy.

Matt - 38yo - level 23 -

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Ask ask him what he would say if he were you. Write the phrases down and practice them in front of a mirror until you don't feel ridiculous. Go with the flow, let go of your inhibitions and just say what you feel. It's a specific ask from your husband, but if you make the attempt he should appreciate it.

Pete - 45yo - level 42 -

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How about yes daddy, spank this bad girl lol, yea idk either

Brittany - 29yo - level 2 -

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If he watches porn try to sneak peak what types and roll play.

Dannie - 31yo - level 21 -

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It always helps to just start from how it feels, whether it feels good or bad. Think of it less so as talking dirty and telling him what you like about the sex. Do you need it harder? Faster? Deeper? Saying things like that will help him know what you like and when he's already in the right spot just tell him so. "Right there!" "Yeah, fuck me like that!" And things of that nature all help make the moment more intense for the guy. Hell, sometimes the right words just might make him cum faster.

Justin - 24yo - level 14 -

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I've been told " Dam daddy I feel you in my guts "
" I can't take it"

Michael Ramos - 32yo - level 7 -

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I can’t do it either

Tiffany - 53yo - level 8 -

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Hi

Devrim - 36yo - level 1 -

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Watch some porn and see what kind of ideas u get. And do it

Dawnyel Tilley - 39yo - level 1 -

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Vvnfine - level 1 -

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Well, in my own experience, I find it completely normal to be asked for dirty talk. My husband thought he would like that too. Then I showed him a fine line of It being hot and how quick it could turn silly, crazy, funny when used too much, or often.

Best to practice via sexting. Small steps!! I was able to prepare hand written notes in advance and then with my cell and notepad, curled up in a big, comfortable chair to work my favorite, saved, dirty words into a text for for about an hour, sex, to my long-distance boyfriend. I saved my hottest lines for last, requesting he call me when he was ready to climax. When he called, I picked up and delivered my final lines and it worked like a charm, and it was hard work too. It wasn’t as easy as you would think or hope.

HusbandDone - 43yo - level 8 -

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Hey, ask him cutt.us/meeliza 😍

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Read books or you could just watch porn hub

Jon - 33yo - level 9 -

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Men love effort more than content. A woman asked me one time what makes a good blowjob. I told her more than anything it's just enthusiasm than technique. As long as a woman seems to enjoy doing that to pleasure her man she really can't do it wrong but if he feels like it's just a meanial chore for her then all the technique in the world won't help. So just be sincere and say whatever your feeling at the moment, harder, faster, slower, right there, you'll get him excited and also give him clues as to what you need as well.

James - 32yo - level 37 -

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I think this was very helpfull I thought for a long time that some of the things ysais were wrong.

geni - 43yo - level 1 -

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If you are embarrassed to day it it will turn him on I promise

Wade - 44yo - level 1 -

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Just egnoor

Muhammad - 42yo - level 1 -

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I love it when my partner talks dirty in bed makes me so hornny

Kal Judge - level 1 -

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It’s was hard for me at first , so I did some research and bingo! Tell him stuff like “ his huge cock feels so good in your tight pussy” sprinkle some” I love yous “and how good it feels . Whisper “fuck me daddy “in his ear and you are all good!!

Erin - 38yo - level 15 -

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Just say any errotic phrase you can think of. If,your ming is black. Try roll Playing asking him if u can follow his lead..

Angela Campbell - 34yo - level 1 -

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I love ot when my SO calls me his dirty little, who or cheap slag, or fuck slut!@@@

Katie - 27yo - level 8 -

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Watch porn. Learn from the professionals...

Courtney - 43yo - level 16 -

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just keep it simple. tell him that you like it or what you want him to do.

Walter - 51yo - level 42 -

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I found it very difficult to does Kanye up that way in the bedroom but from what I have experienced it was easiest to start with explaining what your doing or things you would like to be doing next and just letting him know more of the things you like or if something feels good and he could chane it’s liitle more to bring you to that big o is a big turn on for the guy I’m with but every person has there own preferences but I found that the easiest way to get more comfortable being vocal in the room as for a guy it’s really easy for us woman to see what gets them harder for men it’s not as easy per say ‘ .

Keriann - 34yo - level 41 -

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He doesn't want a discussion he just wants feedback. So tell him what feels good and what feels bad for your body and toss in some naughty words every now and then.
Alt, pretend it's food. You've got no problem saying This pizza is fog awesome. Or do you?

Emilio - 64yo - level 7 -

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Just talk to him. Say how much you love him, enjoy the ultimate closeness with him and desire to have him. Talk about your and his body. Say it in your own words, because it would be you talking.

Jurģis - 33yo - level 11 -

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Tell him what you want him to do to you, and describe everything in full detail

Cristopher - 22yo - level 3 -

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anyting sexy of them l

Hai - 31yo - level 6 -

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anyting sexy of them

Hai - 31yo - level 6 -

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Most dirty talk guys are into revolve around what they have seen in porn. Recommend watching some porn with him as a couple and see what he enjoys hearing

Korey - 30yo - level 4 -

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Ask him what he wants to hear and then learn how to make it believable. Sometimes it must come together in an organic way, never forced.

Lex - level 26 -

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I lov charri the way she is she is amazig totally the one for me.the only one for me i feel blessed to know her each and every day.I lov more today than i did yesterday. She is my queen. Always lov you 108% everyday Daddy

Mark - 52yo - level 19 -

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I lov charri the way she is

Mark - 52yo - level 19 -

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Me to

iAMShakespeare - 35yo - level 22 -

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I love you

chiehman - 33yo - level 36 -

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Just to the song, "Talk dirty to me" by Poison.

Clayton - 22yo - level 33 -

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I am the exact same... My partner started asking me simple questions like where his "###" was and I'd answer to ease me into talking and I felt less self conscious if that helps.

Jasmine - 38yo - level 48 -

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Say literally anything remotely dirty. He's not gonna stop to comment on it, he's just gonna tell you how hot it was afterwards. No one even remembers what they say during dirty talk, just let it out.

Colin - 36yo - level 34 -

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Just start with easy breathing. As you already know what’s bothering you when you get into bed, it can get even harder when you can’t stop thinking about what you can’t do right and it will never let you focus on getting it right. So just breath and take it easy and be in the moment, look into your partner’s eyes and connect with him. Everything will fall back into its place. Trust me.

Preet - 20yo - level 6 -

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Least start try n adapt... if it makes him happie... why not..

Aderlene - 31yo - level 6 -

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I wouldn't say anything you don't honestly mean. If you can't think of anything to say in the moment I would ask a question, like 'what do you want to do to me/me to do to you?' That way the pressure is back on him and gives you longer to work up some courage.
Generally just saying when it feels good is a good start

Anne - level 3 -

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Ask him what kind of things he would like hearing. It's always best to talk things through with your partnerm

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I’d ask what he had in mind- worst thing is saying something that ruins the mood. He asked for something and it’s up to him to provide specifics so you can both be comfortable

Tristan - 29yo - level 2 -

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Pray to god and ask for guidance during this time.

Matthew - 34yo - level 16 -

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Just let it flow...say what your feeling

Lenora - 31yo - level 3 -

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Dont think about it too much... just let it happen.

Kimber - 25yo - level 15 -

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Start from simple words, something classical, like “f#%k me” and then add some more when you get used to with it!)

Andy - 31yo - level 10 -

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