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My husband really wants me to talk dirty to him during sex but I always get tongue tied, or I just don’t know what to say? I need help

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8 months ago

Tell him stuff like "God you know how to fuck me", "dam your so big, you make me so wet" or you can esk questions like "you like fucking this pussy", "whos gives it to mommy good" once you gets started it will get easier and easier. Pay attention to how he reacts to what your saying that will help alot

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8 months ago

Just start with saying out loud what you’re physically feeling. “Yes, that feels good. Right there. Harder.... slower....” It will evolve form there. 😉

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8 months ago

He doesn't want a discussion he just wants feedback. So tell him what feels good and what feels bad for your body and toss in some naughty words every now and then.
Alt, pretend it's food. You've got no problem saying This pizza is fu#k!g awesome. do you?
I'd skip watching the porn for starters...he might think you're goofing around c him.

Emilio - 63yo - level 6 -
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8 months ago

Be genuine. There is no benefit to saying something that isn't you, doesn't feel right, feels forced, is over thought and or rehearsed.

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8 months ago

Honestly men love the effort. I'm a huge fan of dirty talk. My girlfriend did not like it in the earlier parts of our relationship and but honestly to him whatever you say will be hot and you'll be able to tell the difference in his enjoyment when you do it.

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8 months ago

For some dirty talk rolls off the tongue easily, but for some it can be a learning curve. My advice, have a couple of shots before hand it'll help lighten you up and then just relax, relate, release. Ask "who's d**k is this", tell him to do dirty things to you, etc. You will experience a different kind of passion.

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8 months ago

Thats difficult for me too. Over time I tried to overcome it but I have come up short. Its not tongue tied, its embarrasment. You are doing somethin naughty, and now you also have to voice it out?? No way jose. They way Im getting better is because my partner accepts me and makes me feel extremly wanted in evwry kimd of way. He isnt afraid to do random acts in sex. Im always remind it how every noise my body makes is okay, normal and hot for him. I have gotten good at sex talk although he still shuts me up or I cant text it.

I understand you guys need to build up that disgusting naughty comfort zone. Were anything is possible and okay.

You can just start by saying how you feel during the act. Saying how you like it and why.

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3 weeks ago

hiiii

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8 months ago

How about yes daddy, spank this bad girl lol, yea idk either

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8 months ago

Think about what he’s doing that you like and encourage him, “yes like that” or “don’t stop” ...it’s more natural than you think.

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8 months ago

One way to approach this is to just describe what’s happening, like you’re kind of narrating your encounter. . .’Im getting turned on, I like it when you do X, do X again, you’re so good at X. . .’

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8 months ago

If he watches porn try to sneak peak what types and roll play.

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1 week ago

I love it when my partner talks dirty in bed makes me so hornny

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3 weeks ago

It’s was hard for me at first , so I did some research and bingo! Tell him stuff like “ his huge cock feels so good in your tight pussy” sprinkle some” I love yous “and how good it feels . Whisper “fuck me daddy “in his ear and you are all good!!

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1 month ago

Just say any errotic phrase you can think of. If,your ming is black. Try roll Playing asking him if u can follow his lead..

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3 months ago

I love ot when my SO calls me his dirty little, who or cheap slag, or fuck slut!@@@

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8 months ago

Watch porn. Learn from the professionals...

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8 months ago

Just relax and have fun. Remind yourself that he asked for this and he loves you so he's going to appreciate the effort and remember practice makes perfect lol

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8 months ago

just keep it simple. tell him that you like it or what you want him to do.

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8 months ago

I found it very difficult to does Kanye up that way in the bedroom but from what I have experienced it was easiest to start with explaining what your doing or things you would like to be doing next and just letting him know more of the things you like or if something feels good and he could chane it’s liitle more to bring you to that big o is a big turn on for the guy I’m with but every person has there own preferences but I found that the easiest way to get more comfortable being vocal in the room as for a guy it’s really easy for us woman to see what gets them harder for men it’s not as easy per say ‘ .

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8 months ago

He doesn't want a discussion he just wants feedback. So tell him what feels good and what feels bad for your body and toss in some naughty words every now and then.
Alt, pretend it's food. You've got no problem saying This pizza is fog awesome. Or do you?

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8 months ago

Just talk to him. Say how much you love him, enjoy the ultimate closeness with him and desire to have him. Talk about your and his body. Say it in your own words, because it would be you talking.

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8 months ago

Tell him what you want him to do to you, and describe everything in full detail

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8 months ago

anyting sexy of them l

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8 months ago

anyting sexy of them

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8 months ago

Most dirty talk guys are into revolve around what they have seen in porn. Recommend watching some porn with him as a couple and see what he enjoys hearing

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8 months ago

Ask him what he wants to hear and then learn how to make it believable. Sometimes it must come together in an organic way, never forced.

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8 months ago

I lov charri the way she is she is amazig totally the one for me.the only one for me i feel blessed to know her each and every day.I lov more today than i did yesterday. She is my queen. Always lov you 108% everyday Daddy

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8 months ago

I lov charri the way she is

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Since the 1st time i saw her getting off the train3/14/17 our day lov u

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8 months ago

I think you should basically tease him with a sexy voice.. something simple can be very sexy

April - 39yo - level 1 -
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6 months ago

I love you so much charri how could you thank I don't 108%

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8 months ago

Me to

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8 months ago

I love you

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8 months ago

Just to the song, "Talk dirty to me" by Poison.

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8 months ago

I am the exact same... My partner started asking me simple questions like where his "###" was and I'd answer to ease me into talking and I felt less self conscious if that helps.

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8 months ago

Ask ask him what he would say if he were you. Write the phrases down and practice them in front of a mirror until you don't feel ridiculous. Go with the flow, let go of your inhibitions and just say what you feel. It's a specific ask from your husband, but if you make the attempt he should appreciate it.

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8 months ago

Say literally anything remotely dirty. He's not gonna stop to comment on it, he's just gonna tell you how hot it was afterwards. No one even remembers what they say during dirty talk, just let it out.

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8 months ago

Just start with easy breathing. As you already know what’s bothering you when you get into bed, it can get even harder when you can’t stop thinking about what you can’t do right and it will never let you focus on getting it right. So just breath and take it easy and be in the moment, look into your partner’s eyes and connect with him. Everything will fall back into its place. Trust me.

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8 months ago

Least start try n adapt... if it makes him happie... why not..

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8 months ago

I wouldn't say anything you don't honestly mean. If you can't think of anything to say in the moment I would ask a question, like 'what do you want to do to me/me to do to you?' That way the pressure is back on him and gives you longer to work up some courage.
Generally just saying when it feels good is a good start

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8 months ago

Ask him what kind of things he would like hearing. It's always best to talk things through with your partnerm

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8 months ago

I’d ask what he had in mind- worst thing is saying something that ruins the mood. He asked for something and it’s up to him to provide specifics so you can both be comfortable

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8 months ago

just count to 3 and then just do it. keep your husband happy and satisfied. he will appreciate it and so will you.

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8 months ago

Pray to god and ask for guidance during this time.

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8 months ago

Just let it flow...say what your feeling

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8 months ago

Dont think about it too much... just let it happen.

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8 months ago

Start from simple words, something classical, like “f#%k me” and then add some more when you get used to with it!)

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