10 months ago
My first marriage went downhill over the years. We didn’t communicate well sexually and really didn’t match as we had different wants and needs.
Eddie - 41yo - level 47 -
That said, my current marriage is the opposite, our sex life improves all the time and just when we feel like it can’t get better, it does. No kidding, like every fantasy and dream have not only come true, but have been surpassed.
I think it comes down to two things, compatibility and open communication. You won’t get far if you can’t share your desires and be willing to help your partner achieve theirs. If you are afraid to tell your spouse or lover what turns you on, your darkest kinkiest fantasies, how are you going to achieve them?!