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Is sex still the same as it was when we first started going out or is it more or less passionate. Vibrator, batteries, pleasure, surprise, ?

Tj - 49yo - level 16

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1 year ago

It gets better and better, I would say from my experience. You have to be open-minded to experience new things and find out what works or doesn't work for you and your partner.

Solina - 24yo - level 25 -
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1 year ago

It’s actually getting better and better! I will admit, we had a lull in there. But that’s because we both got kind of comfortable. But when I asked what he wanted and what I could do to make things more exciting, he wouldn’t communicate. So I was at a loss. We got through that, thank goodness! He’s finally communicating and we are having AMAZING sex now!!! And yes, toys, role play and a little leather go a long way!! 😈 lol!

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1 year ago

If you put in effort and keep it interesting then yes, go to adult stores together, find and try something new, keep open communication about likes and dislikes and also be open minded and accepting, healthy sex life, exciting long term life.

Helena - 26yo - level 10 -
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9 months ago

As for me and my husband the sex hahas become way more intense, exciting, and adventurous since we've opened up to eachother.

Jess - 33yo - level 1 -
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12 months ago

I love sex

Sonu Gujjar - level 1 -
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1 year ago

A lot better

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1 year ago

We have sex less now bc we have kids but I think it means more now then back then

Samantha - 28yo - level 1 -
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1 year ago

More intense each time

Cindy - 41yo - level 13 -
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1 year ago

It’s way more passionate! I

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1 year ago

Absolutely better. The passion can be so intense sometimes, when you’re both just desperate to feel one another and even the slightest touches feel good... ugh. Teasing one another throughout the day is a lot of fun too, because then you know you can’t wait to get back to one another.

The other thing is communication; I saw someone else wrote that too, and I agree 100%. When you start to talk about what works for each of you and what you both want in a sexual experience, it can get really hot. I have had the best sex of my life with my partner, all because I was willing to share what I wanted from her. Yeah, it’s embarrassing to share sometimes, but it is definitely worth it.

Mat - 30yo - level 43 -
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1 year ago

Definitely less passionate. It has become not nearly as regular because of what I consider to be games being played and less passionate due to laziness on both parts.

Katrice - 48yo - level 22 -
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1 year ago

Less passionate about sex for her

Russell - 34yo - level 22 -
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1 year ago

The shift in perception, comfort, and connection ages things differently. There's no rush of the unknown and some of the spontaneity is gone. But so is some of the fear and awkwardness. Connection and knowledge of each other's bodies grows, as well as comfort and trust. You can surrender more easily to this familiar, rich connection.
Big note: do not let things go stale and they will always improve!

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5 months ago

My first marriage went downhill over the years. We didn’t communicate well sexually and really didn’t match as we had different wants and needs.

That said, my current marriage is the opposite, our sex life improves all the time and just when we feel like it can’t get better, it does. No kidding, like every fantasy and dream have not only come true, but have been surpassed.

I think it comes down to two things, compatibility and open communication. You won’t get far if you can’t share your desires and be willing to help your partner achieve theirs. If you are afraid to tell your spouse or lover what turns you on, your darkest kinkiest fantasies, how are you going to achieve them?!

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5 months ago

I want to fuck my wife

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5 months ago

I am cockold

Armeta - 26yo - level 1 -
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5 months ago

No life without sex

Sam - 39yo - level 1 -
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6 months ago

13 yrs in and ours gets better and better

Tonya - 33yo - level 1 -
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6 months ago

More passion

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8 months ago

It's def better now. I'm with someone who was a lot less experienced than me. And at first wasn't even open to touching me cuz he had never done it so he was afraid he wouldn't know how. Now he touched me Soo good and knows that that's what I need to be more involved. He was even recently ( like yesterday recent) open to me bringing my tiny finger vibrator into the situation. And we were both pleasantly surprised and both even more aroused than we thought possible. I didn't even know a guy could enjoy having vibration on him, now I know, and I might be bringing that little too around more often, or maybe I'll introduced my stronger better one into the bedroom.... All I know is I'm excited for the future just because it's gotten better almost every time and I was worried it wouldn't because of my own insecurities.

Christina - 33yo - in a relationship for 1 year - Dating - level 27 -
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9 months ago

Less I feel

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10 months ago

Little less passionate. Sad but true

Heather - 42yo - level 1 -
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10 months ago

Less passionate for sure,he seems to not be as attracted to me that he was in The beginning

Melissa Dawn - 31yo - in a relationship for 1 year - Engaged - 1 - Norman, United States - level 1 -
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1 year ago

Personally our sex gets better and better the longer we're together. We are really comfortable with eachother sexually, we are lesbians and enjoy a plethora of toys so it's always different, fun, and interesting!

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1 year ago

We have our ups & our ups!

Teresa - 43yo - level 14 -
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1 year ago

Way more passionate. 15 yrs together we have definitely learned how to please each other an spice things up.

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1 year ago

More passionate gets better every time

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1 year ago

After 4 years, engaged and about to be married in 5 months it's still awesome. Still hot and spicy. It just gets better and better and I'm very grateful for that. We love trying new things. You have to be open minded and try new things.

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1 year ago

It has only gotten better since than! I am very passionate in bed.

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1 year ago

I would have to say very less passionate or not at all. Before we were good together and got to be comfortable but now we are not even that close. So I do have my toys.

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1 year ago

I think the more you know your partner, the better you are together. It has seasons though. Sometimes your adventurous and sometimes a quickie is you both need. Like everything else in a relationship it's work to keep it fresh.

Pete - 45yo - level 41 -
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1 year ago

No it has become even better

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1 year ago

More intimate. Passionate.

Steve - 35yo - level 9 -
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1 year ago

Sex gets better as we get to know each other better. Even after 12 years I am still learning new things. I am learning what she likes and wants and vice versa.

Gunnar - 33yo - level 2 -
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1 year ago

Better, I know her so much more then I did bfor. So I know that she's much happier in that area.

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1 year ago

No sex is never the same but the longer u are with someone the more comfortable you and u start to try new things and have fun sex should always no matter fun yes u will think for a.min I don't want this or it's plan but promise u it will get crazu and wild

Alyssa - 31yo - level 20 -
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1 year ago

She has check out I'm still just as passionate.

Glenn - 38yo - level 2 -
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1 year ago

As long as you are both willing to work for it, it can be better.

Steven - 31yo - level 1 -
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1 year ago

Same passion, less frequent

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1 year ago

More passionate because we have a better mental connection. Not afraid to use toys and be more open with each other

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1 year ago

I think its less. I feel there is. Less emotion coming from him and hes just not i to it

Sara - 36yo - level 11 -
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1 year ago

It's less passionate almost like he forces him self to try

Vanessa - 35yo - level 1 -
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1 year ago

way better. the more connected and in love you are the better the intimacy.

Walter - 51yo - level 42 -
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1 year ago

Definitely gets better over time!
Especially as you both gain more confidence and knowledge about pleasing your partner.

Maxx - 27yo - level 40 -
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1 year ago

It gets better as our emotional connection deepens.

Sara - 34yo - level 13 -
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1 year ago

Its still as enjoyable and exciting as 15 years ago

Amanda - 31yo - level 14 -
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1 year ago

Better every time

Teresa - 56yo - level 44 -
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1 year ago

Very few things are enjoyable if they do not get better with time. Keeping an open mind and trying new things is a must, in order for sex to get better. Life is about doing the same things over and over, one must get better at everything.

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1 year ago

It gets better as your partner learns your body and personal preferences. Keeping an open mind and a judgement free nature to sex is key.

Ivana - 26yo - level 10 -
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1 year ago

It gets better and better every time

Dawn - 40yo - level 4 -
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1 year ago

Even better every time

Kath - 31yo - level 24 -
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1 year ago

Sometimes the spark reduces, however u get more confident along the way and with communication about preferences things get better

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