1 year ago
Well, I think she's not that excited about sex anymore. Maybe you could travel, have a romantic trip, to make things better. Maybe you've lost the spark after 20 years, you know? But if she's always been like that, maybe it's time for her to get rid of the chains of patriarchy and discover what pleases her. We women have always been taught that we should only please our men, and we're not supposed to like sex or to have pleasure. That's something that really bothers me, because I spent 5 years, in my previous relationship, thinking that I should only do whatever my partner wanted, so I had never thought about what I liked. I hadn't even masturbated. Maybe she needs to discover herself, what she likes and what pleases her.
Gabriela - 23yo - level 34 -