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If you do something for others should it be in a way that is important to them or just any old way.

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5 months ago

If it’s truly for them, it should be the way that’s important to them! If it’s done just any old way, then the heart’s not really in it. Is it?

Deanna - 47yo - level 19 -
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6 months ago

Certainly the way it is important to them, if practical. Sometimes it could he a little different, but the effort is the same.

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6 months ago

Its about them, you should enjoy making them happy and understand the importance of tailoring an experience.

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6 months ago

In a way that’s important to them. You want to add value in the way THEY receive it the Best. Because it isn’t about you or what you would like... it’s all about them. So make sure that’s reflected 100%

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6 months ago

There is no blanket answer. Some will prefer one, while others will prefer the other. You should be enough of a student of your spouse to know which approach is best...

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6 months ago

Depends

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6 months ago

In a way important to them. Shows your tunes into what’s meaningful to them, rather than what’s most convenient to you.

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6 months ago

A way that is important to them but staying true to yourself.

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6 months ago

Considera their ways but be true to you

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6 months ago

See a need, fill a need. Of course it should be as personalized as possible.

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6 months ago

Important to them if you want to make them feel like you care

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6 months ago

Any way

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6 months ago

Important to them

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6 months ago

Important to them, if they are important to you.

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6 months ago

Important to them.

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6 months ago

In a way that is important to them. Taking their needs/wishes into consideration is a way of showing that you care about them.

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6 months ago

Important to them

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6 months ago

In a way that's important to them

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6 months ago

If you do something for others, it’s going to be good either way. However, if you take the time and consideration and effort to make it personal and important for that individual, it will be much more meaningful.

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6 months ago

In a way that is important to them, but if you don’t get it quite right i’m Sure most would appreciate the gesture.

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6 months ago

If it takes lots of extra effort to do things in a way that is important to them, make sure to do those things, but don’t always feel like showing them you love them other ways isn’t an option. I’m sure they will like it if you do nice things for them one way or the other, but they will really love it when you do things for them in a way that’s important to them.

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6 months ago

In way that important to them

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6 months ago

Definitely In a way that is important to them

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6 months ago

Important to them

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6 months ago

A way that is important for them

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6 months ago

Important to them.

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6 months ago

Important to them

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6 months ago

It should be important to them

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6 months ago

Mostly the important things are to be acknowledged.

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6 months ago

It depends, but personally for me I think it should be done in a way that is important to them❤️

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6 months ago

It depends. I would say to get the best reaction it should be something that is important to them; however, sometimes doing something as simple as fixing them lunch is special too!

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6 months ago

Important to them definitely!!

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6 months ago

Do something that's important to them.

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6 months ago

If you want a really great reaction, it should be in a way that is important to them, but if you are doing things just to be loving, it’s ok to do whatever flows out of you. It feels good for a person to anything for you, but it feels fantastic when they do something that they’ve tailored specifically for you based on your love language.

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6 months ago

It depends on the reason you are doing it I guess. If it's to show them you care, do it in a way that is important to them. If it is to do something for them just to do it do it for them, you can do it any way. But if I'm going to do something for someone, I'm going to want to do it in a way that means something to them by it being important to them for 2 reasons... 1. It really shows them you know them and care and 2. You get the recognition knowing this! Win win. Read the 5 love languages of its a relationship question. Addresses this exact question.

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