10 months ago
Yes and yes, but for goodness sake don’t (I repeat DON’T) talk about it during or right after sex. You will just end up causing pain and doubt that will not help your cause. In fact, I would suggest not having the conversation at your house at all, so that the conversation doesn’t also become associated with that room of the house in your partner’s mind. I also suggest having the words you will use already planned. Sex is an emotionally charged subject, and if you don’t carefully choose your words, you may end up inadvertently damaging your relationship.
Laci - 33yo - level 19 -