6 months ago
My partner is the same... I am very receptive to tone, he doesn't even realise he is changing his. For him it is very annoying to him when I tell him that I can tell by his tone that something else is going or his tone usage makes me feel terrible. I have figured out if I tell him how he is feeling when I call him out on it is how I feel when he does it, he will correlate the feelings. He only seems to understand how I feel if I gently use an experience where he would feel the same and compare it to my feelings. Then it's like a light bulb goes off and we go from there.
Jasmine - 37yo - level 47 -