1 year ago
I am in the exact same position and we go to couple counselling. I over communicate but at least communicate. He doesn't at all. It seemed impossible to me but our counsellor does help. I do suggest 1 session for yourself, 1 for him and then 1 together. If we didn't, I'd go crazy and it's hard as my heart doesn't say go ( I have a strong gut instinct which I listen to) but if nothing changes, the cycle will continue and I will go as love isn't enough for me if you don't grow together. One thing I was told is clearly articulate what you think he is doing and why that isn't what you are asking for (need) and vice versa. If counselling isn't your thing, do please try one session as they will offer a different perspective and advice that what we see and if he's the one you will try anything.
Jasmine - 38yo - level 48 -