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Should the engagement ring be a surprise, or picked out together?

Nakia - 44yo - level 8

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5 months ago

Should be talked about maybe shopped for together, but the final ring and the proposal should be a surprise

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5 months ago

Surprised

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5 months ago

Should know general preferences but the final design a surprise.

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5 months ago

That should be decided by the couple . He could always drop hints about it on weather that is what she want's. Or have a family member or friend ask her for him.

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5 months ago

Engagement ring is done alone and then wedding ring is the together ring

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5 months ago

Suprise

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Surprise

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5 months ago

It depends on the couple. I do not like surprises so my fiance proposed and then we picked out a ring together. Some people love the surprise.

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5 months ago

Surprise

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5 months ago

A surprise, it's more romantic!

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5 months ago

Surprise

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5 months ago

Surprise. For me, the appearance of the ring is not important. What it symbolizes is what matters.

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5 months ago

Discussed first, then a surprise if the couple wants.

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5 months ago

Surprise! But I do love surprise gifts and stuff like that. I also think if they know you they will get it right. Mine was a surprise and it's perfect.

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5 months ago

Surprise

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5 months ago

Surprised

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5 months ago

Discussed but should be a surprise

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5 months ago

Picked out together

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5 months ago

Picked out together ❤

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5 months ago

Surprise

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5 months ago

Surprise!

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5 months ago

Ditto oon wheat Lesley said

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5 months ago

Mine was a surprise, but I gave him some "ideas".

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5 months ago

Surprise

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5 months ago

It should be a surprise.

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5 months ago

Surprise

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Surprise

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5 months ago

Surprise! No question in my mind.

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5 months ago

Together

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5 months ago

Either

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5 months ago

I think something as special as this should be picked together.

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5 months ago

A surprise!

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5 months ago

When I picked out a ring I spent a while to figure out what she wanted. Asking questions and finding out what you need to know about something as simple as a ring helps put into perspective your depth of understanding of the other person. The person recieving the ring may also be able to see the connection and effort that was put into that little symbol of commitment. Having seen couples go pick out a ring together often, but not always, turns into a superficial event rather than a memorable one.

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5 months ago

Pick out together

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5 months ago

A surprise. It’s from the heart and means something special.

Michelle - 50yo - level 7 -
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5 months ago

It should be a surprise

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5 months ago

Surprise

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5 months ago

Together because I know what I want and he is too nervous to do it on his own

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5 months ago

Must be surprise

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5 months ago

Together

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5 months ago

It depends on if you are traditional or not. If not then let the woman pick the ring out.

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5 months ago

I think that depends on the person. Some want that surprise and would love it no matter what and others want a certain style. So just look at who you are with and the answer will be easy to obtain. Good luck

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5 months ago

Engagement surprise
Wedding together

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5 months ago

Depends on the girl, I would like to have my input since I am the one that has to wear it daily. But surprises are great too.

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5 months ago

Depends on the girl, I would like to have my input since I am the one that has to wear it daily. But surprises are great too...

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5 months ago

Surprise.

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Surprise

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5 months ago

Suprise

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5 months ago

It should be a suprice , plus it really cute to get reminded that he picked it specially for you

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5 months ago

Together

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5 months ago

Surprise

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Surprise

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Surprise

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Surprise

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5 months ago

Picked together. Have you seen the Kay "place holder" rings? Brilliant. They're 100$, and you can either keep them or turn them in at a Kay and get 100$ toward your actual ring.

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5 months ago

Surprise

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Together

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5 months ago

It shouldn't matter

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5 months ago

Surprise

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5 months ago

I don't think it matters

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5 months ago

Surprise

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5 months ago

Surprise is hard to make cause you have to know the size of his/hers finger. So we picked our rings together.

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Picked out together

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Suprise

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5 months ago

Surprise, but she should have some input in what she likes

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Surprise

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Surprise

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5 months ago

Surprised

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5 months ago

A surprise

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Surprise

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5 months ago

Surprise and have her pick it but surprised that you got it for her priceless

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5 months ago

It should definitely be a surprise. But he should pay close attention throughout the relationship so he picks the right ring.

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5 months ago

Surprise

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Surprise

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5 months ago

Picked out together

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5 months ago

Depends on the preferences.

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Surprise

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Surprise

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Surprise

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5 months ago

Don't matter.. Ring is just a ring.. Heart is more important

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5 months ago

Picked out together. Depends on how long they’ve been dating and how the love has been shared! If they’ve talked about it then it can be looked at as something that shows THEIR relationship and it’s no shame in agreeing on how to represent each other

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5 months ago

Surprise

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5 months ago

Picked out together.

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Surprise

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Surprise

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Surprise

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Surprise

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Surprise

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5 months ago

Together. .. question can be asked with a ring pop! Then ho pick out that ring that goes POP and makes hearts stop!

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5 months ago

Picked out together

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5 months ago

Depends on if he really knows you

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5 months ago

Both

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5 months ago

Surprise !

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5 months ago

Engagement rings are a waste

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5 months ago

Surprise, the weddingring is the one you pick together.

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5 months ago

The woman should hint around to the kinds of rings she likes and the man should go from there to surprise her...

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5 months ago

Surprise

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5 months ago

Definitely a surprise. That's the point :-)

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5 months ago

Surprise, but can give him ideas.

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5 months ago

In my opinion it sure be a surprise but having an idea of what she might like.

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Surprise

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Surprise

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5 months ago

Suprise if possible

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Surprise

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5 months ago

Surprise! (She can pick the style before hand though)

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5 months ago

Ummm surprise

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Surprice

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5 months ago

I have always believed it should be a surprise.

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Surprise

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I think it's something that one partner should give ideas for, aka princess cut, small diamonds vs large, gold vs silver, etc. But the other partner should be left the ultimate decision

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5 months ago

Surprise :)

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Surprise

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Surprise

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Surprise

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5 months ago

A surprise.

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5 months ago

Surprise based on previous thoughts and talks

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Surprise

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Surprise

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Surprise

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5 months ago

Together

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Surprise

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Surprise!

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Surprise

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Surprise

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A surprise

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5 months ago

Depends in the couple.

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Surprise

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5 months ago

Either. It depends on the couple

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5 months ago

Surprise but talked about or my friend helps him to get what I want

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5 months ago

I agrée with this

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Surprise

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5 months ago

A surprise but taliked about

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Surprise

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Surprise

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Surprise

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5 months ago

Picked out together

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A surprise

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