7 months ago
No. This is just my opinion. Once trust is broken, the person who didn’t break their word needs to move on to find someone with the same amount of respect, loyalty, and dedication so to find the perfect match. Cheating isn’t a mistake like spilling milk. Cheating is intentional and allowed to happen. Once a person steps out, that should be the end. If the cheater has a life experience change and stops cheating, maybe the relationship could reconnect later. For me, cheating crosses a line as a deal breaker along with abuse because it is emotional abuse that harms. Infidelity is a character flaw that should be passed on and not given another chance. Cheating is a red glad that something is too broken to fix. I wouldn’t tell a partner with a black eye to work it out anyone than I would tell someone who was cheated on to work it out. I’m answering for me, so I’m sure many disagree. This is just my outlook on a cheater and it’s bye bye because I’m too busy for that pathetic nonsense. Break off the relationship if you want to play instead of lying and betraying.
Heather - 44yo - level 6 -