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How much do you alter your answers to either please your partner or for fear of their reaction?

Lachelle - 35yo - level 27

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1 year ago

I dont change my answer at all for him dont care if it hurts his feelings or not if it needs to be said it needs to be said i dont like holding my feelings in anymore

Kelly - 36yo - level 9 -
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1 year ago

We always answer honestly, and it leads to some interesting conversations

Mat - 30yo - level 43 -
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1 year ago

Never. Honesty is best all the time.

Crystal - 35yo - level 16 -
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1 year ago

We always answer as honest as possible. Thats the only way this game works positively for your relationship. Also just a side note... We dont play the game when we are upset or fighting either. Learned that the hard way. Its no fun to revisit old hurt feelings after you've kissed and made up.

Corie - 47yo - level 34 -
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1 year ago

Never. Always being honest is the best thing you can do for each other otherwise why even play the game?

Joshua - 32yo - level 43 -
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1 year ago

Sometimes it can be hard, but if you aren’t honest it defeats the purpose. Honesty first, then you and your partner can truly grow together.

Ernie - 33yo - level 30 -
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1 year ago

Try not to, but I’d be lying if I say I never did.

Zachariah - 19yo - level 16 -
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8 months ago

Honesty

Charity Barnaby - 34yo - level 1 -
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8 months ago

No I have not and I don't think he has we are doing this for a reason. Why lie .

Quintana - 43yo - in a relationship for 12 years - Married - 2 - Ceres ca, United States - level 11 -
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8 months ago

I have not and I don't think he has, we are doing this for a reason what's the point if we r only going to lie

Quintana - 43yo - in a relationship for 12 years - Married - 2 - Ceres ca, United States - level 11 -
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1 year ago

I don't

Arun - 41yo - level 32 -
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1 year ago

Sometimes depends on the topic

anonymous - 37yo - level 17 -
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1 year ago

Never

Ashley - 20yo - level 13 -
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1 year ago

We answer honestly. If you don't this app won't help anything. My husband and I are doing it to get better at our communication, since we both are bad about holding stuff in and not talking about it. It's definitely sparked a handful of conversations, particularly when we get it wrong. It's very helpful.

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1 year ago

We answer as honestly as possible however, if there is a question we have hesitation about we talk about it before answering. I really feel that this app has improved on our already great communication.

Char - 41yo - level 25 -
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1 year ago

Often

Nannette - 51yo - level 21 -
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1 year ago

Not at all

julie - 48yo - level 43 -
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1 year ago

Never I did in the beginning but then we both decided if we k ptvdoing that it wasn't doing any of us any good

Shanna - 36yo - level 18 -
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1 year ago

Im considerate and sensitive when Ineed to be and always honest.

Greg - 32yo - level 1 -
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1 year ago

I do not alter my answers..I'm a no filter type person..no fear here either.

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1 year ago

A good bit

Misty - 30yo - level 8 -
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1 year ago

Very little, but I have noticed that I think she will go the same but as me.

Derek - 52yo - level 15 -
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1 year ago

I answer the way i feel. Never alter.

anonymous - 36yo - level 6 -
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1 year ago

Try always to be honest

Tim - 38yo - level 30 -
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1 year ago

I don’t that’s how this helps. It gets couples talking to each other

Robert - 55yo - level 47 -
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1 year ago

None me and my bae keep it 100

Barry - 35yo - level 15 -
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1 year ago

I don’t. I feel it’s the best way to open communication.

Kristile - 40yo - level 13 -
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1 year ago

I don't alter any answers. I say it like it is.

Gina - 61yo - level 28 -
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1 year ago

At this point, we're both open with each other although there are some points we still being tactful with each other.

Enna - 22yo - level 13 -
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1 year ago

Sometimes

Melissa - 28yo - level 21 -
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1 year ago

Not at all. We need to know one another for who we truly are.

Laurae - 28yo - level 19 -
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1 year ago

Brutal honesty. Unless we’re joking around.

Michael - 44yo - level 39 -
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1 year ago

I try not to. Honesty makes this fun

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1 year ago

I dont at all, and neither does he as far as I know. If we answer completely differently or offend each other we try to talk about why we feel that way.

anonymous - 32yo - level 15 -
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1 year ago

Sometimes I do to keep from hurting his feelings.

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1 year ago

That’s interesting.. Have any of your not so honest answers ever been exposed and if so does it result in hurting him? Also does it create trust issues? I’m asking because my partner thinks the same as you and it has only pushed us further apart to the point of losing nearly all trust and it really hurts.. The biggest issue for me personally in our relationship is honesty.. I keep repeating the same sentence in every arguement.. “all I am asking is for you to be honest to yourself” this simple..

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1 year ago

...request will rebuild trust and lessen her fears of my reaction because if she knows herself that she’s not doing anything wrong and would be happy if I was doing the same thing I can only listen and understand and both our fears will disappear and our trust will grow and our relationship will strengthen. Isn’t this common sense or am I delusional?

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1 year ago

I don’t we both tell it like it is

Angie - 31yo - level 19 -
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1 year ago

I try to be as honest as possible but sometimes the answers don't work for our situation so instead of typing a new one I go with the one closest

Tasha - 34yo - level 29 -
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1 year ago

Try not to, but I’d be lying if I say I never did

Darren - 43yo - level 21 -
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1 year ago

I have altered my answers but I really try not to and I hope Lauren doesn't alter hers either. I love this app and I think it works if you are honest

Daniel - 37yo - level 47 -
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1 year ago

I don’t alter my answers at all.

Angela - 50yo - level 27 -
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1 year ago

I answer honestly and we discuss the differences and gain perspective from the other person as to why they answered how they did!

Leanne - 30yo - level 35 -
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1 year ago

Never ever ever

Alyssa - 24yo - level 5 -
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1 year ago

Practically never

Paweł Kowalski - 18yo - level 18 -
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1 year ago

I dont at all, and neither does he as far as I know. If we answer completely differently or offend each other we try to talk about why we feel that way.

anonymous - 32yo - level 15 -
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1 year ago

I don't. We play to be honest, so that way we can learn more about each other.

Nikki - 28yo - level 43 -
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1 year ago

never

Rashad Price - 31yo - level 3 -
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1 year ago

I answer as honest as possible. Your never going to get to know one another if u don't

Brittney - 29yo - level 17 -
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1 year ago

The only answers I alter are the ones that make me think about the past the ones that me sting a little bit when they have already stung for so long. I just don't think it's very relevant when you have become a happy couple

Michael ziems - 36yo - level 23 -
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1 year ago

I don't alter anything. We keep it real always

Dee - 33yo - level 26 -
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1 year ago

I answer openly and honestly... with love and compassion

Liz - 42yo - level 35 -
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1 year ago

Sometimes my answer will be the sugar coated answer that's provided. And she will be blunt about herself.

Jack - 36yo - level 26 -
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1 year ago

I don’t. I like this game because it brings up discussion topics, even if they are difficult. Why play if you won’t be honest?

Amanda - 36yo - level 46 -
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1 year ago

No

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1 year ago

I don't at all. What's the point of you do?

Marie - 40yo - level 32 -
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1 year ago

If your just appeasing your partner there's no point in having the app, the app is to help you discover and grow with each other not to just make the other one happy you do that enough outside of the app!

Chris - 49yo - level 20 -
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1 year ago

I don’t. That’s the whole point!

Janna - 39yo - level 3 -
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1 year ago

Never

Birta Líf - 22yo - level 19 -
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1 year ago

Never, that defeats the purpose of this game

Raymond - 31yo - level 17 -
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1 year ago

Never

Ben - 32yo - level 47 -
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1 year ago

I try to get honest from both sides...

Donn - 50yo - level 1 -
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1 year ago

Never

Stephanie - 26yo - level 22 -
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1 year ago

I dont. We are very open and honest and understanding people.

Kimberly - 27yo - level 41 -
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1 year ago

I don't

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1 year ago

I don’t

Ashley thomsen - 29yo - level 32 -
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1 year ago

I don't, because she deserves to know how I feel about certain topics. Even if we disagree in some areas, it is important to know how it might affect us.

Solina - 24yo - level 25 -
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1 year ago

I agree with plf. This app helps us know more about each other and share information we haven't thought of. I am surprised by some answers that my boyfriend has given, but it has given us more trust to one another and keep on knowing that there should always be acceptance and communication between each other.
So always answer truthfully.

Claudia - 25yo - level 20 -
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1 year ago

I don’t, it defeats the purpose otherwise.

Woof - 26yo - - level 46 -
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1 year ago

Some minor tweaks on occasion but very rarely. I think it has only been like 2 questions but honestly have stopped adjusting my answer.

But for the most part, completely honest.

Jared - 33yo - level 20 -
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1 year ago

Nope. Never. What’s the point then? It’s to get to know each other better.

plf - 59yo - level 12 -
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1 year ago

Never

Maranda - 39yo - level 42 -
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1 year ago

Maybe 20% of the time.

Missy - 46yo - level 16 -
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1 year ago

Never.
I expect the same from my partner.

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