7 months ago
Goes up and down. Been together 25+ years now. After the initial honeymoon phase where everything is perfect, arguments start slowly. Each person starts sticking up for their opinions more, being less patient than they should, etc. intensity and frequency go up, then as you progress as a couple, learn how to communicate better, become more selfless, you start solving more and more issues. Pretty soon, the only things you argue about are only big stuff. Never the little stuff. ...and even then, it doesn’t take long before you’ve worked it out.
Michael - 43yo - level 31 -