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Do you and your partner discuss other people that you have a crush on or who turn you on?
If so, do you discuss famous people or people you know?

Ronnie - 37yo - level 26

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8 months ago

Not current crushes, I dug on out of him once and couldn't let it go #jealoustype

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8 months ago

I feel that you should let your partner know about how your feeling and have communication and why having crush on someone else so you can dicuse and decide next step

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8 months ago

Famous people yeah, it's Fun. We don't have current RL crushes and we don't discuss RL past crushes.

Bulma - 37yo - level 8 -
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8 months ago

Definitely fun to discuss

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8 months ago

Not really. We've talked about famous people we had crushes on growing up, but that's it.

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8 months ago

No

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8 months ago

No

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8 months ago

People we know

Lauryl - 54yo - level 23 -
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8 months ago

Do you get into specifics with each other?
We love to discuss people we know!

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8 months ago

Yes

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8 months ago

We've talked about celebrities but also people we know. It's fun sometimes and were so much in love it's not an area of concern.

Eli - 44yo - level 32 -
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8 months ago

No

Larry - 40yo - level 13 -
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8 months ago

No

Tabitha - 31yo - level 27 -
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8 months ago

No

Josh - 33yo - level 1 -
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8 months ago

Yes that adds to the quality of relationship we share

Anekant - 29yo - level 43 -
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8 months ago

I dont have eyes for anyone other than my husband so my answer would be no 😁

Lara - 42yo - level 37 -
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8 months ago

I personally dont have eyes for other men I'm completely in love with my husband.

Lara - 42yo - level 37 -
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8 months ago

Guys,

anonymous - 37yo - level 13 -
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8 months ago

Yes we do but only celebrities not people we get along with.

Libbs - 34yo - level 21 -
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8 months ago

We often do. It's fun and exciting, it really gets us going.

Marie - 40yo - level 32 -
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8 months ago

Yes we have, not a great thing to do tho.

anonymous - 40yo - level 1 -
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8 months ago

Yes

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8 months ago

Yes we have it's only human to be attracted elsewhere. It's how you handle that emotion is what makes you a significant other

Norm - 42yo - in a relationship for 11 years - Married - Defiance Ohio, United States - level 44 -
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8 months ago

No

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8 months ago

Yes all of the above

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8 months ago

Yes

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8 months ago

Yes, we have talked about it and both of get jealous sometimes and turned on. It's crazy, but hot.

Dana - 39yo - level 30 -
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8 months ago

No

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8 months ago

She knows about my celeb crushes

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8 months ago

No, think it would make it uncomfortable because they may have thoughts anytime that person is around

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8 months ago

We openly discuss people we know. We also discussed famous people but not very often. We really don't care about famous people.

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8 months ago

I have not discussed past crushes, but will openly discuss famous people that really move me.

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8 months ago

Famous people only, it's fun. Currently we don't have RL crushes besides ourselves, and we don't discuss past crushes. No need to.

Bulma - 37yo - level 8 -
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8 months ago

Both

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8 months ago

Both. We have had a few movies that my wife said she was attracted to, and we have talked about people we know and see often. It's best to be honest at all tines

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8 months ago

Just famous people

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8 months ago

No we haven't but I really kind of want too see his answer to this.

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8 months ago

No we don't.

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8 months ago

Noo

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8 months ago

We love to discuss some in depth fantasies that we have of some of our closest friends!
We both know it will never play out but it makes for some great sex talking about it

Ronnie - 37yo - level 26 -
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8 months ago

Yes we do. Though it's more popular to discuss famous people we are open to discussing people we know too or even just strangers we find attractive.

Rhea - 27yo - level 22 -
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8 months ago

We enjoy discussing friends and strangers, it gets us excited!

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8 months ago

With celebrities? Sure, it's only for fun. Do you really have this problem people? I find it so normal to discuss this things... And even with other people, it is always better to be open and sincere with your partner. But for all the answers I am seeing here.. people is hiding their feelings and keeping secrets, which is much worse. Now I feel even happier with my relationship. But seriously guys you should open your minds, meet more people and don't be so purity, we are not in the 19th century.

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8 months ago

Only famous people.

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8 months ago

Famous ppl isn't so bad. The rest is unnecessary.

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8 months ago

Yes! Famous people, because people we know would be weird (at least for us I guess)

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8 months ago

I know her favourite celebrities and we both joke about them playfully. I can easily see why she likes them so if they ever appear and look especially good, I might say things like “God damn” or whatever just for fun. It’s all harmless but it depends on the person I guess since I can understand why some might be insecure about it, though it’s funny considering my partner is the very jealous type, though I guess it’s limited to real life for the most part.

As for me, I obviously find certain people attractive but I am not really one for keeping favourites, but I will sometimes make comments to even it out, but usually only since my partner is always the first to point out attractive women just as quickly as she does men, despite being hetero... so I more or less just agree *laughs*

Though, despite all that, we’re pretty much of the same mind that both of us would have zero interest in doing anything which these celebrities were we given a “free pass” by our partners - or hell - even the opportunity for a threesome.

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8 months ago

We definitely do discuss this topic, but we do only do it using celebrities, never anybody we know.

Ben - 38yo - level 9 -
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8 months ago

No we do not talk about other interests. That's rude isn't it?

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9 months ago

Some people discuss having a "free celebrity pass"

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