1 year ago
You might also want to consider trying adjusting your timing. If you have only had these discussions when things were getting heated and she expected anything to happen, they might have been more dismissive about the idea of saying anything at all, or perhaps even vice versa, where being “in the mood” helps gives her more incentive to try sharing.
Woof - 26yo - - level 46 -
Reaffirm your comfort and support for her. Explain that even should she like something that you personally don’t have an interest in, that it is very okay to have different tastes and you won’t judge or question her - and that even if you don’t, maybe one day you would consider doing it for her if it would make her happy.
One more thing crossed my mind but this one is quite out there and presumptuous. You say she loves to hear about your fantasies. Is that an exaggeration or quite true? Is she very interested in trying most/all of them? If so, then I would be leaning toward believing that she might have “submissive” tendencies though may be afraid of discussing them. Of course, it is a random idea taken from the very little information you’ve given, but you’re the one who knows your partner so if you think there might be any truth to it then it’s something else to consider.