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How quick or how long did it take to say I love you and why?

Jeanetta - 24yo - level 26

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2 years ago

When the time is right and everyone is sober

Callie - 27yo - level 46 -
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2 years ago

I was drunk and him sober. He said it back, the next day I felt awkward but when I leaving he said it to me. Still together 10 months later

Madgscherly - 26yo - level 39 -
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2 years ago

I said it pretty quickly.. I knew he was the one and I wanted to be with him for the rest of my life.. We were married after 9 months and been married 15 years next month..

Heather - 36yo - level 32 -
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10 months ago

My girlfriend told me she loved me before we were even in a relationship. I met her while I was in prison and she was on the streets. We wrote letters to eachother for the last 4 months I was locked up. I could tell how h eww r feelings for me were progressing just through the words that she write to me. Then sure enough, she told me. I didnt say it right away. I think I knew I had some type of strong feelings for her but at that time it was hard for me to sort out all of my feelings due to the wreck that I was because of me getting ready to be released. After I was released she was the first person I called on the bus ride to my hometown. She lived 6 hrs away from me so I wasnt sure about how things were going to end up because it's so easy to write words to someone while they are locked up behind a door and I've seen so many plans that other girls had with the same type of situation and 9 times out of 10 they never worked out. So the first few weeks I was out, I made a mistake and started hanging out with an ex of mine for all the wrong reasons, and didnt really talk to the woman who had had my full attention for the last 4 months. But she did try to stay consistant with me and once I pulled my head out of my ass, i started talking to her more and started doing what I should have to begin with. It had been about a month and a half or 2 months when she drove 6 hrs one night to come see me just for a few hours before she had to go back home because she couldnt miss work. (Which I thought was the sweetest) a few more weeks or so had passed by and we became closer and I finally realized what my heart had been trying to tell me, she came to visit me once again and we got a room together so we could have some alone time together and it was also our first time sleeping together, that was the night that I whispered in her ear softly that I loved her. Here it is now, a year and a half later and I still whisper to her that I love her so very much.

Britt - 31yo - level 2 -
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2 years ago

I remember that we were both fairly quick to say I love you. Of course at 15 and 17 years old you think you are in love in a matter of days. In our case 23 years later we can safely say we were right about it all those years ago.

Leah - 39yo - level 34 -
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2 years ago

I say it when I feel it. There are no time constraints.

James - 35yo - level 45 -
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2 years ago

I said it pretty quickly.. I knew he was the one and I wanted to be with him for the rest of my life

Heather - 36yo - level 32 -
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2 years ago

We’d been friends since we were kids about 11 years old I wished him a happy every birthday since I met him 20 years we went on our first date and it was great we went back to my place and cuddled on the bed and while laying on his chest I told him I’d always loved him, and how amazing being with him finally was, and he told me he thought he’d loved me just as long 💗 so when you feel it say it don’t hold back

Kate - 33yo - level 10 -
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3 months ago

He said it day one. I said it back day 2.

Kimberly - 50yo - level 2 -
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3 months ago

19 months after we met and it was written on my mother's day card from the kids or on his card. I was pregnant during and I refused this relationship not to say that 1st.

CRIS - 41yo - level 22 -
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3 months ago

dating still after almost 12 years, no ring no commitment.

CRIS - 41yo - level 22 -
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6 months ago

Love you my girlfriend lots 😊

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6 months ago

I am really happy be with treat u too many things take u out 😙❤😄

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9 months ago

We were telling each other i love you within the first week. We started out as friends for years before we ever looked at each other as more than friends. Once we become attracted to each other, spending personal quality time together and became intimate we fell in love quickly. Its been almost 3 years now, we've been thru ups, downs, good times, bad times, happy, sad, arguments, disagreements, have broken up, lived separately, dated other people, and yet and still in the end we still found our way back to each other. There's nothing we haven't been thru and nothing we can't get thru together. 💘

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11 months ago

I say it took us about a month to know that we loved each other and he asked me to marry him . Since 2007 we have been together we got married in 2014 and we are still crazy about each other we r not perfect but the flame is still there.

Quintana - 43yo - in a relationship for 12 years - Married - 2 - Ceres ca, United States - level 11 -
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2 years ago

Think he felt obligated cause I got pregnant. I didnt say it back for almost 4 months as I wasnt sure before

Jessica - 29yo - level 32 -
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2 years ago

probably 2 months we talked about love and it's not real until you have spent enogh time to gather to realise it

gary - 49yo - level 14 -
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2 years ago

About three month

Ben - 35yo - level 21 -
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2 years ago

He told me after a week and I said it back

Siouxzie - 47yo - level 17 -
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2 years ago

2 days, but we had known eachother for 8 years prior and already had a solid relationship. We are truly soulmates.

Emily - 28yo - level 19 -
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2 years ago

I accidentally said it like 5 months in, just because I felt it so often

anonymous - 23yo - level 20 -
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2 years ago

When ever I feel it

SAKETH - 25yo - level 15 -
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2 years ago

1 month 13 days😍😍

Som - 18yo - level 17 -
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2 years ago

My hubby and I were saying I love you probably after a month or so and the reason is simple...we fell in love quickly and easily! Everything about our relationship was just instant. Love at first sight! 10 years later we are stronger than ever!

Chelsea - 35yo - level 24 -
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2 years ago

3 weeks or something and I just felt it so I said it

Thomas - 28yo - level 33 -
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2 years ago

Less than a week I knew I loved you the moment I laid eyes on you

Bart - 39yo - level 15 -
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2 years ago

I live in the now. I say what I feel and i mean it :) i dont beat around the bush nor do I hold back from the truth :) we exchanged "I love you" within the first month we started dating. We also say it when we feel like saying it ..

Kate - 26yo - level 22 -
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2 years ago

It was fast because I did and still do love him hes perfect for me

Valerie - 29yo - level 43 -
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2 years ago

About three months. That’s when we met first. We met online and it’s easy online to confuse feelings and sometimes they’re not even true. That’s why we both waited to say it until we met, even though we were both sure of our feelings before that. Add to that the fact that we both thought it would be so much better to say it when actually with the other. And it was. Absolutely perfect.

Tanja - 26yo - level 20 -
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2 years ago

About three months. That’s when we met first. We met online and it’s easy online to confuse feelings and sometimes they’re not even true. That’s why we both waited to say it until we met, even though we were both sure of our feelings before that. Add to that the fact that we both thought it would be so much better to say it when actually with the other. *_* And it was. Absolutely perfect.

Tanja - 26yo - level 20 -
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2 years ago

I think that I'm the more expressive one in our relationship: it took me 4 weeks to say "I love you".

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2 years ago

Pretty fast, but our relationship moved fast.

Donald - 38yo - level 35 -
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2 years ago

We have been dating for a little more than 2 months, but even when we are exclusive, we are not "official" yet. I have a history of long unhealthy relationships, and before I meet my partner, I was in a break, I needed to be alone to heal and improve myself and my quality of life, and that break was long, a few years.
My partner is younger than me and he ended his most serious and longest relationship a few months before we meet. Neither of us were looking for a relationship, so we try to keep things one step at a time. Also, we both are super bussy with work and studies so we don't have too much time to spend together, but when we do is pure quality time.
I haven't told him that I love him because, even when I do feel love for him, is not as strong as it will be. And I know he is affraid of falling for me, as I am affraid of falling for him too. We are not in a hurry so we take our time.
He has told me that he loves me, at a month and a half of dating, but he was drunk at the phone! We talk about that (I don't drink) and that night his phone was stolen. He was ashamed of his attitude of calling me drunk at 3am, but he said he doesn't remember his confession. I think he was just ashamed and affraid of rejection or falling deeper for me. We resolved the issue talking with honesty about our goals with our current individual lives and our goals with our relationship. It was very healthy.
I don't know when we will say those 3 words to each other, but neither of us are in a hurry. We enjoy our time together and go one step at a time.
Please excuse my English, it is not my native language.

Bulma - 37yo - level 8 -
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2 years ago

We waited a long time...almost 4 months. We wanted it to be special and to be sure that it was real! We said it floating in a hot spring in the middle of the night, drinking champagne. So romantic and unforgettable ❤❤

Jennifer - 39yo - level 21 -
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2 years ago

Depending on how great the connection is it would be at least a day or two if we're completing each other's sentences and eye contacts locked deeply or you can take up to six to eight months depending on how one another felt towards each other but you know when you know you love somebody, especially when you can't wait to be with that person you long for the person every waking moment you wake up thinking about said person

Kyle - 40yo - level 13 -
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2 years ago

About a year, waited until she said it first

Roberto Reina - 27yo - level 39 -
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2 years ago

A few weeks/months

Nina - 27yo - level 26 -
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2 years ago

Not very long. Like a month

Denzel - 22yo - level 25 -
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2 years ago

A month. We both have been through a lifetime of hurt and were quickly able to establish a bond that made us inseparable. We now love together with our children.

Gina - 40yo - level 29 -
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2 years ago

A month

Jennifer - 37yo - level 18 -
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2 years ago

Almost a year

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