7 months ago
Being honest about my thoughts and feelings, and trying to share them instead of dismissing them. Dismissing them causes an unhealthy balance in our marriage because then I start believing and acting like she is marginalizing me and doesn't care, when in reality I've caused the situation by not communicating. I'm still trying to work on a good solution, but I think intentionally confirming with her that our marriage is a safe space to express myself (because I know it is, but sometimes I don't feel like it is) would go a long way.
Timothy - 28yo - level 21 -