9 months ago
It does sound as if he has been quite strategic in doing this, by doing a few things such as propositioning other women as well as taking out an add. My questions would be.... Why did he feel the need to do this, why so many methods (the add is easier to appear single actually) and how did you find out? Only you know the ins and outs of your relationship however, it does appear quite deceitful. To build trust up again, that is a big job and you'd need to know if he is up for doing that work because I'd make him. And it takes a lot more time to rebuild than it does to break trust. It would need to be a lot more effort than just an apology for me.
Jasmine - 37yo - level 47 -