1 month ago
We're all scared to put ourselves out there like that. Because once we do, we can never come back from it. When you do go there, you're putting yourself in a place of great vulnerability; and our baser instincts tell us to avoid being in situations that make us vulnerable and subject to the risk of being hurt. But if you truly are in love (not love her, but actually in love with her), and you want to have a healthy and happy relationship than you have no choice but to put yourself in that position of vulnerability. You can't be afraid to love, you can't be afraid to be hurt like you may have been in the past. You will never find true happiness in a relationship if you choose to hold back.
Skooby - 36yo - level 21 -