10 months ago
I am dealing with something similar. I am healing from some pretty traumatic PTSD and have become so codependent. My boyfriend doesn't really allow me to play that part because he knows I am stronger than that. So a lot of times I feel he is rejecting me or not showing me the love or compassion that I desire. But it's me who is projecting the negative behaviors and lack of love to our relationship, lately. I have within me everything I need. I am learning that I don't need him to validate me or my feelings. He fell in love with a strong confident woman. I'm finally finding her again. :) He reminds me of who I really am.
Kristin - 43yo - level 3 -