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How many other women feel that talking to someone in a sexual matter , making another feel good in that way but not the one your with is just as bad as doing the act of cheating. I can be sitting right there close to him, put time into fixing myself up and dressing up for him. I have been trying to open up more sexually for him but doesn't seem to be enough.

Shannon - 42yo - level 4

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1 week ago

To cheat doesnt always hve to b the act of.... Touching. Sex, ect) it also means to betrayl, to decieve. Altho u say it was just talking obviousky there is "something" there or u wouldnt b "talkibg" like that to sone1 that isnt ur partner. & if u honestly loved ur partner it wouksnt b happening eithr. So yes DDEFINATLY IT IS A FORM OF CHEATING!! HOW WOULD U FEEL IF SITUATION WAS REVERSED. ALways put urself n the pther persons shoes & ask urself how u would feel?

Crystal - 43yo - level 1 -
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1 week ago

Its the same, mine has recently become addicted to porn and I just caught him watching it before during and after sex! Hes also making new emails and using our kids emails and logging in and out of them and deleting Google history and activity. Mind you he has my only social media account on his phone and not even his own, he linked our chrome data until he realized it let me see his too, he deleted all the passwords in our joint emails. Maybe you guys aren't meant to be together honestly if he isnt happy with sex life and you arent comfortable giving her what she wants

Stephanie - 37yo - level 9 -
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2 weeks ago

It's cheating, period.

Christina - 33yo - in a relationship for 1 year - Dating - level 20 -
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2 weeks ago

To me it's the same , is he complementing another women if so yes it's cheating , I know iv been hurt in this way all the time , but today I could not have been more clear about my needs and desires and he still can't do it but he says he loves me I think once every 2 years I get complemented by my husband it breaks my heart my husband never. Tells me I'm pretty and he still can't but he would to another wome
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Quintana - 43yo - in a relationship for 12 years - Married - 2 - Ceres ca, United States - level 10 -
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2 weeks ago

It is 100% a form of cheating IMO. Cheating is relative to the individual/couple. Clearly this is a betrayal to you and it being so I would rethink the relationship. If you’re sitting next to him but he’s engaging with someone else - you have your answer as to where the relationship is headed. Cut your losses and move on.

Lala - 32yo - level 25 -
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2 weeks ago

I agree with you. It’s a form of cheating.

Michelle - 38yo - level 19 -
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