7 months ago
For 1 the one in the relationship that is having the ussue needs to learn how to retrain their brain & mayb take some type of self help, self esteem boosting exercises, self love...... Etc.... Altho ones sexual partners, encounters, &/or play by play details IS NOT something we have daily discussions with our partner bout, it is something thsts can b like a huge elephant in the room & can b very over powering in many situations. It can make & break a relationship.
Crystal - 43yo - level 1 -
Ur partner needs to come to the realization that EVERY1 has a past. Whether we like it or not. Our pasts is a part if us & is what helps mold us n2 what we become n life. I kno personally i myself CANNOT stand thinking bout my fiance having any other relationships so i just tell myself that he doesnt hve a past & neither do i, now, even tho im not wanting accept that he has had a past .& has had other sexual partners, im not stupid neither.. But in my own head i make myself believe that we r each other's one & only... & hopefully,God willing, we WILL BE one anothers last...