3 weeks ago
Make them feel like they are still an important factor in your everyday life. Tell them every detail of everyday and everything you do. If you aren’t very talented in descriptive vocabulary, I would recommend reading an article or two on it. When you talk to them try to get them to be able to picture what you’re talking about as you talk about it. This way it gives them reminders and things to hold onto and to have hope for. The rest goes without saying. Hold him down, don’t be scandalous or do sneaky or dumb things, like cheat or have an affair but more so, don’t have an emotional affair either. It’s easy to find someone that’s willing to “talk” about the situation. Because they “understand” but odds usually are that person is really just trying to swoop their way in while your partners locked down or out of the way. It is extremely conniving, child like and inappropriate. But unfortunately, it’s extremely common. Be observant and smart and remind your partner that you are with them every step of the way and you count down everyday until the day you can hold them in your arms again.
Kourtney - 26yo - level 16 -